Karlien Kruger

When you're dating, pay attention to patterns like: • Never taking responsibility • Disrespecting your boundaries • Controlling behaviour disguised as jealousy • Constant criticism • Financial manipulation • Trying to isolate you from friends or family • Using affection as a weapon • Constant comparisons to other men • Creating drama where there doesn't need to be any • Making you feel like you're walking on eggshells Nobody is […]

Are you dating the person—or their potential? We've all done it. “They'd be perfect if they just communicated better.” “They'll want commitment eventually.” “They'll become more romantic.” “They'll change.” But here's the uncomfortable truth: You shouldn't choose someone based on who you hope they'll become. People can grow. They can change. They can work on themselves—but they have to want that change. Before getting serious, ask yourself: “If this person […]

Maybe you're divorced. Maybe you've lost someone you loved. Maybe you've been single for years and wonder whether your chance at romance has passed. Here's your reminder: love doesn't have an expiry date. You don't have to be younger, have a perfect past or have your entire life figured out to deserve love. You may need to step outside your routine, take a chance on meeting someone new and learn […]

Red flags aren't always dramatic. Sometimes they're subtle: • They never take responsibility. • They don't respect your boundaries. • Their words don't match their actions. • They try to control who you see or what you do. • They're charming when things go their way but cruel when they're angry. • You constantly feel confused about where you stand. • You keep making excuses for behaviour that makes you […]