Dating for Grownups

There is something very attractive about a grown adult who can take care of themselves. Because sometimes being single isn't about not wanting love. It's about not wanting another person to manage. You can want companionship, affection, intimacy and someone to share your life with—and still think: “I don't want to raise another adult.” The right relationship shouldn't make your life perfect. But it shouldn't turn you into someone's mother, […]

If you're dating someone, and you're not sure whether you should stay in this relationship then this article might be of value to you. I found it on the "She Thrives Solo" Facebook page and although it's written for women, I think it could resonate with the guys too... If you want to read the full post, click here:

I found an article on She Thrives Solo Facebook page that talks about the things that women who have been single for years are quietly unwilling to give up, but I think some guys would resonate with it too. If you are super happy being single, then this one is for you! To read the full article, click here: If you are too lazy to read it, you can listen […]

Love isn’t only flowers, date nights and romantic messages. Sometimes love looks like doing the dishes, planning dinner, taking out the rubbish, handling the school run or noticing that your partner is overwhelmed. Sharing household responsibilities says: “This is our home. These are our responsibilities. You don’t have to carry everything alone.” It doesn’t always have to be 50/50—but it should feel fair, respectful and shared. Real love often looks […]

Are you really looking for a relationship, or could there be something else you need to check first? I came across a cool article about it on a Facebook page called She Thrives Solo. If you want to read the article, click here: If you are too lazy to read, listen here:

I came across a post on a Facebook page called She Ins Pires Strength and it gives a couple of questions or conversations that you and your partner should consider discussing before you break up. Before you throw everything away, just consider this first. To read the questions, click here: If you are too lazy to read, you can listen here:

I came across and article on Facebook that I think would be of value to anyone in a relationship. The page is called "That wealth girl" and it really is worth a read. It's not the grand gestures that create a secure relationship, but the small everyday things done with intention. To read the full list, click here: And if you are lazy to read, then you can listen here:

Sometimes couples don't have an intimacy problem. They have a touch problem. Holding hands. A long hug. A kiss goodbye. A hand on your partner's back. Sitting close together. Safe, affectionate touch can help communicate connection and may play a role in stress and emotional regulation.

Romance doesn't have to be expensive. Sometimes it's... Making the coffee. Sending a thoughtful message. Holding hands. Saying, "I appreciate you." A kiss before leaving for work. Romance isn't about grand gestures.