Dating for Grownups

You Can’t Build Real Intimacy on a Foundation of Performance

todayMay 7, 2026

Background

You can’t build real intimacy on a foundation of performance.
If you’re constantly:
– editing yourself
– holding back
– trying to be more “likable”
Then the connection isn’t fully real.
The right person doesn’t need a perfect version of you.
They connect with the real one.

Written by: Karlien Kruger

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